My partner and I were going to have sex for the first time last Thursday. Would have been a first for me in a while. We weren’t using condoms, and he wasn’t particularly wet, I put him on, but with no wetness, we finished after a few minutes. The next day while showering I noticed that my glans had turned red, and after that point I felt a slight itchiness there (maybe placebo since I wasn’t feeling it before). We started searching the internet, and a local website recommended applying marigold lotion. I applied 3-4 times per day since then, and it had gotten better, but was still feeling sensitive yesterday so we decided not to go for it. She’s been using intimate gel to keep herself clean while in the shower – is it possible it was an allergic reaction? We are quite worried as the website said it would be over by now. Or maybe it was just irritation due to lack of moisture? Next time we agreed to use lubricant, but I’m worried it could be something else, so would really appreciate any feedback or suggestions for this problem. Thanks in advance!