My [M22] friend [F21] Not in the mood and I’m a very sensual person. Masturbation doesn’t curb that part for anything and I need to be touched by someone else to climax. I don’t want to ask her for anything, so I wait until she suggests, but even when she doesn’t actually do anything, be honest. Either she forgets or she is not ready for it. I don’t know what to do because porn is not working either but I am getting frustrated and it is turning into anger and I hate that it does this. Hookups don’t work, I need someone to hook up with. We are in an open relationship but we do date together and we are currently single at that stage. She knows I’m disappointed but if she’s not in the mood then she isn’t.