How do I get over my husband’s past? I recently, after about a year of marriage, came to know that he has been to bath houses etc. and has had countless sex partners including countless gangbangs and orgasms. We talked about past relationships earlier in the relationship and I knew he had more partners than me. But I didn’t feel anything like that. I am very old fashioned and prudent when it comes to sex and I cannot help but feel extremely uncomfortable. It’s all up to the point where knowing this makes me uncomfortable around him especially sexually and I find it hard to know what I do. I know that the past is the past, and I have no doubt that everything is behind that. how do i let it go // I probably should have mentioned that I’m a guy too, we’re gay.