How to attract your partner for sex?

After being together for 4 years, it seems that my partner has no desire for sex. And it’s a little hard for me, because I love sex. I understand she might be tired, stressed etc so I don’t push for sex everyday but at least a few times a week but even that is a challenge these days. I have discussed this several times, but things have not improved much. I’ve tried to improve myself, be more attentive to him, give him more free time, take him out more often, don’t ask for sex unless he initiates it, etc., but sometimes The lag is getting too long. I have also tried to diversify my sex life, like having sex in different places, having sex in different positions, buying sex toys for that. He seems to have liked it in the beginning, but then the enthusiasm quickly rolled over. Just a few more details, I try not to force myself or my desired. When we have sex, I spend a lot of time doing foreplay – kissing, hugging, licking her pussy and ass in the hope that this will get her turned on and want to have sex. Any advice from anyone?

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