Lately my boyfriend has been more ‘experimental’ in the bedroom, which basically means he’s being very rough in the bedroom, along with pulling my hair or initiating sex really suddenly. eg. Recently I was walking to the counter while watching something on my phone, and he came up behind me and suddenly pulled up my skirt. Tbh it doesn’t turn me on, and I find it shocking and jarring instead of sexy. But I don’t want to tell her because I don’t want to come across as vanilla and boring. Yes, I know my consent is more important, but feel embarrassed to admit that I can’t stand a little roughness in the bedroom. How do I break it up without hurting her feelings?